Sometimes in relationships there comes a time when we realize we are being manipulated. Manipulative communication subverts respect for selfish gain. That may be achieved but the cost will be trust in the relationship. It’s best to spot manipulative communication tactics and know how to avoid them. 1. Making statements disguised as a question. For […]
Empower Your Children to Believe They Belong
Children who do not believe they belong or matter do not feel valued unconditionally. To help themselves feel as though they are important, bully others, be demanding or withdraw as a form of punishment. These children might even act as if they think they are better than other people (even though they don’t believe they […]
Shifting Goals of Misbehavior
Shifting the Goal of Attention: Ignore child when using misbehavior to get attention Pay attention to child when they are not asking for attention “Say it” only once and then act Set up routines Plan special times to play and let them lead Use encouragement, not praise Return responsibility to the child Redirect by involving […]
Empowering Children to Have Courage
Children who do not have courage do not take risks and tend to give up without trying. They frequently avoid challenges. As children develop courage, they are more willing to try new things. They begin to believe they can succeed, and they feel hopeful. Children with courage believe they can handle difficult situations and changes. […]
ADHD Parenting Tips
Life with a child with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD/ADD) can sometimes be a challenge, frustrating and even overwhelming. The earlier and more consistently you address your child’s challenges, the greater chance for success later in life. With this diagnosis your child most likely experiences these deficits: Inability to think and plan ahead Managing and […]