I’m sure that many of you who read my previous blog on trust with relationships may be thinking, “This woman is officially obsessed with that concept.” And yes, I will say that this concept is important because it is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. But today, I want to focus this blog on one […]
Therapist Blog
Parents and Adult Children
In the short time that I’ve been a therapist, I’ve worked with families of all shapes, sizes, backgrounds, and life stages. There is one life stage in particular that seems particularly tricky for all family members to try and navigate: when the child turns 18. I’ve seen many families go through the turmoil of trying […]
Give yourself a break: The Importance of Regular Rest
We are busy. An understatement I know. We are constantly going and going in this day and age. If we are not working, there’s the responsibility of the home to deal with. If those responsibilities are taken care of, then there’s the family to take care of. Once the family has been taken care of, […]
The Importance of Life Skills Training for Children with Autism
Throughout the course of my training and early years of being a therapist, I’ve had the opportunity to work with children and even adults from different backgrounds. Because of my training in ABA I’ve had the privilege and honor to work with children and adolescents diagnosed with Autism and their families. One of the most […]
Encouraging Problem Solving Skills in Your Children
In the amount of time I’ve been a therapist, I’ve heard these three little words said on repeat to the point where I think they are permanently engrained on my brain: “I just can’t.” I often hear these words from children who find themselves in an unpleasant circumstance, and they switch to this default because […]
Inhale lots of love in, exhale lots of love out
It was the middle of the pandemic and nothing was helping me out of my rut. It was difficult to think positively when the threat of COVID meant we were forced into isolation. But who was I to complain? I had a job, my health, and the news of progress toward a vaccine was a […]
Three Things
Years ago, during a troubling time in my life, I went to a therapist. She was an amazing woman who allowed me to explore who I was. At that time, I was young and recently married with no kids and difficulty adjusting to married life. I was very comfortable working with her and allowed myself […]
Modeling Behavior
“Albert Bandura’s social learning theory suggests that observation and modeling play is a primary role in how and why people learn. Bandura’s theory goes beyond the perception of learning being the result of direct experience with the environment. Learning, according to Bandura, can occur simply by observing others’ behavior” (UC Berkeley.edu). Years ago, while training for […]
“Suggested Readings”
One of the main tools I use in therapy is suggesting readings for clients. Below are five books I have suggested many times over the years. There is a book about trauma I read this past year and found it profound. There are two books about self-care that I’ve recommended to a lot of my […]
Mindfulness Origami
Mindfulness is defined by “a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations.” It is a practice that improves self-acceptance and focus while reducing reactiveness and thoughts about our past and future. The good news is that we can use mindfulness […]
